When my brothers got seperated with their wives I make sure that I'll always check on them and made them feel that no matter what I'm just always here when they needed someone to lean on. I know that for you guys, bringing up conversation about your problems are really hard but I didn't forced you to talk. I stayed there for you guys not just a sister but also a friend that you can drink and laugh with. It just really breaks my heart that because of a woman our sibling relationship will be torn apart. I never interfere to your love lives infact I always support you guys but like what the heck! Are you just gonna really ignore your son/daughter's feeling because of that woman you are loving?