Normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you. Giving you all of the right words, but none of the right actions is called manipulation. When a person wants to be with you, they prove it. Period.

Prove yourself to yourself, not to others.

Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love a person you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each other's thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.

Normalize not feeling bad for removing yourself from anybody who did not feel bad for hurting you.

Good morning Ya'll

Once you start realizing so many people are actually emotionally wounded children in adult bodies, you stop taking everything personally.