How to be free from a narcisist family member?

I know that some people may have a mother, father or even husband as a narcisist. In my case, i was gifted with a narcisist mother-in-law. Since I got married she treats me so bad, with words that hurt, but her attitudes are worse. She is never well when we were close, she would always be against me in anything i would say, but i am always kind, i never say things to hurt people, i do my best because i am a christian and i follow my faith. So for years, since 2010, i forgave her uncountable times, i would cook for her, make birthday parties, make doctor appointments for her, do whatever i could in hopes she would change with me, but no, she never did. Ah i don't live with her, but she used to come to my house to offend me and discuss with my husband. When i was pregnant the first time i felt sick because of her presence, she would prophecy bad things about my baby, say he would become a drunk, he would live a crazy life, but she also rejected him, because she always wanted a daughter or a granddaughter. When my daughter came i thought she would become nice, but no, she picked my baby to her house and stayed several days, wouldn't want to give me her back. It caused us trouble. But she has caused many bad situations in my life during all these years. But i would always forgive her. When i first heard about a narcisist i could describe her. Since then i decided to keep total separation from her. I heard many psicologists about this subject and they all say a narcisist will never change! They will do everything they can to destroy your life, to keep control over you. So the only way out is total separation. Never see again, never talk to again. I have been practicing this. I know i can't separate my husband from her because he is a nice son. He goes there, he sees her, he takes the kids for her to see, they go out. But i stay alone in my house. But it's ok... anyways i have a dream: To move to a place very far from her so we can live in peace.

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